Monday, February 28, 2011

Time to SOAR!

Business Coaching Exercise #1 – What Is So?

Back in December, I stumbled upon Me Ra Koh’s website in one of my nightly photography-related Google searches. I was immediately captivated by Me Ra’s photography AND her story of how she grew into her now amazingly successful career, so I kept clicking. Photo Recipes…finally some useful information for me – a newbie to my DSLR – about HOW you did that…yay! Confidence Workshop…sign me up! (Just need to figure out which bank to rob in order to afford it.) Okay, Me Ra…you’re bookmarked! And then, click…a page that described the 2010 SOAR! Scholarship. As I read these words -- “SOAR! is a scholarship award program that not only changes the lives of three women, but breathes hope and encouragement into people across the nation. The SOAR! Scholarship helps three women each year to make their dream of building a photography business come true” – my salivary glands kicked into high gear. Hey, this is for me! I thought. Sadly, I was too late – by the time I found the information about the program, the application deadline was literally the next day, and let’s face it, you don’t just “throw something together” when making your case for why YOUR life should be changed. BUT, in the beautiful spirit of the program, Me Ra and the SOAR! folks are making good on that “breathing hope and encouragement” thing, and for those of us who applied and weren’t selected, or who just plain missed the deadline, we’ve been invited to follow the journey of the three amazing SOAR! recipients as they blog about their experience AND to participate in the business building and photography exercises as well. So here I am, jumping on the bandwagon (albeit a little late) with the first business coaching exercise.

You can view the entire exercise description here, but the gist of the exercise was to spend some time focusing on “What Is SO” in your business – not on what is NOT. I’m one of those who tends to see everything I don’t have, everything that isn’t working, all the challenges…and then I freeze. I don’t move forward, and in not moving forward, I tend to move backwards. Oy…. Fortunately for me, I’d already recognized this about myself and at the beginning of the year, as I put together my lengthy list of New Year’s Resolutions (or, more appropriately “Action Plan 2011: My Shortcomings”), I’d decided that when faced with a challenge, I’d start trying to see within that challenge the opportunity that was headed my way. This exercise seemed to dovetail with my new attitude (which I’m still only sporadically putting into practice), and here I present to you: WHAT IS SO in Christa the Photographer’s World. Try it for yourself – it’s easily transferrable to whatever your reality is, and I know I’m going to head to bed tonight feeling pretty darn great about my reality!

Talents & Skills:
  • The ability to see in photographs
  • Adaptability; the ability to master new skills quickly
  • The belief that if I try hard enough, I can do anything I set my mind to
  • Creativity; a love for “making” things 
  • A passion for storytelling
  • Emotional intuition; an ability to take in a situation and understand the feelings and emotions driving a chain of events
  • Business sense which will come in handy when setting up business systems, marketing, pricing, client communications, etc.
  • Technical savvy, especially related to Photoshop, setting up a website/blog, building tracking spreadsheets, etc.
  • Entrepreneurial tendencies
  • The ability to connect with kids and relate to them on their level
  • A love of learning and an ability to find the resources to take me to the next level
  • The belief that I am right where I need to be in this place in my life
  • The past experience of having fallen flat on my face, so I’m no longer so afraid of failure

Money:
  • Knowledge that I need to begin building a budget for my business and some frame of reference for how to do this
  • Understanding of the difference between a “need” and a “want”
  • $0 business debt and an expressed goal NOT to acquire debt for this business -- EVER

People:
  • My incredibly supportive family who are excited about seeing me live my dream, starting with Kirk who has made a point of stretching himself to help make this happen for me and my father who understands photography and can give me tips and pointers, talk gear with me, and appreciate my work from the standpoint of someone who knows what it’s like to be behind the camera
  • Friends who are excited about my new career and are willing to share their time with me to help me build my portfolio
  • The wonderful women I’ve met through the SOAR! Forum who are so willing to share their experiences, successes and failures

Systems:
  • Nikon D90
  • Brand-new laptop and external hard drive for storage
  • Photoshop Elements
  • An online proofing solution

Agreements:
  • An agreement with Kirk that he will bear the brunt of supporting our family financially while I pursue my new career and a Master’s degree

Mission Impact:
  • I don’t just want to capture pretty pictures; I want to capture the hope in a couple’s first embrace as husband and wife, the innocence of a newborn, the overwhelming love that makes a new mama’s heart feel like it will burst, the palpable exuberance of a toddler, the mischievous camaraderie between best friends, the peace and acceptance that comes with growing old together, and even the silence that connects all of these things in the circle of life. I want to tell other people’s stories, and through telling their stories, I want to write mine so that our children will grow to know that life is PEOPLE and life is GOOD. 

Julia playing in her "hidey hole"

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

"I Wonder" Wednesdays

Today has been a busy day. I got to spend a good portion of the day using my camera and subsequently editing my images, thanks to a friend who was kind enough to bring her sweet little boy over for a "practice" shoot. Isn't he darling?

I learned a lot from this shoot -- primarily that it's A LOT different when you're photographing other people's kids! I'm looking forward to continuing to practice and develop time management and directing skills, so that I can shoot more efficiently.

And now, what am I wondering about today? My list is short!

1. How did I get so lucky? If you'd asked me a year ago if I thought I could be this happy, I'd have said no way. But today, I'm marveling at my sweet children, my giving husband, and how much I'm enjoying my life!

2. Will Maddy let me put her hair in pigtails again tomorrow? If so, I'll be sure to snap a picture and share -- the piggies she had today were so cute...really just completed the pixie image. What a peanut!

3. Sentimental vs. stylish?

4. Can I stick to my plan to actually carve out some time to stamp tomorrow? I really want to get some notecards made up to distribute to local businesses as a "Thank You" for what they do...create some goodwill while getting my name out there as the hottest new Stampin' Up! demonstrator on the scene! ;)

And that, my friends, is all she wrote! Good night!

Monday, February 21, 2011

A Trip to the Park

Today was a cold, wet, rainy, uninviting day -- one of those days where it's hard to find motivation because what you really want to do is snuggle under a blanket with a good book and a cup of hot chocolate. Definitely not a day to head to the park! But yesterday afternoon was perfect for spending some time burning off our spring fever at the park. I was excited to take my camera with us, because I knew that I'd be able to get some great shots of the kids being kids. Here are a few of my favorites...enjoy!



f/5.3, 1/250 sec, 1250 ISO
 
f/5.6, 1/250 sec, 1250 ISO

f/5.6, 1/320 sec, 1250 ISO


f/5.6, 1/320 sec, 1250 ISO

f/5, 1/250 sec, 1250 ISO

f 5.6, 1/320 sec, 1250 ISO

Friday, February 18, 2011

"Snow" Much Fun!

A week ago, while Kirk was home briefly between business trips, we seized the opportunity to head up to Mahomet for a fun shoot at Lake of the Woods. Kirk graciously offered to be my model, and we had so much fun together. Lake of the Woods has been the backdrop for so many wonderful memories for us (engagement and wedding photos, wedding rehearsal dinner, golfing together for the first time when I was 8 months pregnant with Julia), and it's so nice to be back in the area and have the opportunity to visit whenever the mood strikes us. We can't wait for the beautiful spring weather, so we can load the kiddos up in the minivan and cruise on up there to make some more memories -- with them included!

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

"I Wonder" Wednesdays

My life and the world around me amaze me, inspire me, and sometimes cause me great pause. So here are some of the things I’m “wondering” about on this third Wednesday in February, 2011. (And for those of you who like cute baby pictures, you'll be rewarded for muddling through my rambling...wink, wink!)

1. Will I remember “’I Wonder’ Wednesdays” next Wednesday? I’ve been sort of flaky about routines lately…. (Note to self: DO BETTER!)

2. What is Kirk doing right now in Vegas…I haven’t heard from him tonight. Whatever it is, I hope it’s worth it!

3. Tonight, the girls and I snuggled up in my bed to read before bedtime, and we were reading Bambi. When we got to the part where Bambi, Thumper and all the other forest animals become “twitterpated,” I explained to Julia that meant that all the animals were finding somebody to love. Without missing a beat, she leaned over, kissed me, and said, “I’m twitterpated with you, Mommy.” How did I get so lucky?

4. Will Maddy and I make it through the Terrible Twos? This child is more often than not the cutest little pixie you could ever imagine, but like in the nursery rhyme, when she is bad, she’s horrid! I can’t seem to find the magic equation for appealing to Maddy’s better sense, and listening to Mommy is rarely on her agenda. SO FRUSTRATED…HELP!!!!

5. What is God’s plan for me? I feel so close to unlocking that answer, but at the same time, there are so many questions resting heavy on my heart about how best to move forward. It’s exciting, motivating, and anxiety-inducing all at once.

6. Why is my DVR not working?

7. How will I be able to knock out everything on my to-do list for tomorrow? It’s HUGE!!! Where on earth should I start?

8. Does anyone else out there agree with me that ellipses are the all-time BEST (and under-rated) punctuation mark EVER?

9. How many days in March will Kirk travel? (Leave a comment with your best guess, and whoever’s closest when March is over will win a fabulous Stampin’ prize – hand-crafted by yours truly!)

10. We have a super-cute kids’ upholstered rocker that’s in desperate need of being recovered. Anyone have the know-how on how to recover furniture, and is this something that I could hack on my own?

I could continue to ramble on, but I’ll limit myself to ten. I obviously have A LOT to pray on tonight, so I’d better get to it! ;-)

Oh, and here are a few pix of my sister's sweetie pie twin boys...I was lucky enough to get to spend some time with them today while Shannon was at class and they were home sick, though they certainly didn't act that way. Hopefully they're on the mend! Hugs and Kisses, SMILE! xoxoxoxo



My "boyfriend" Liam (f4.5, 1/200 sec, 1000 ISO)


Eli and Liam terrorizing the cat...but just look at those baby blues! (f4.5, 1/200 sec, 1600 ISO)

SO CUTE!!! (f/4.5, 1/200 sec, 3200 ISO)

Cheers!

Monday, February 14, 2011

Happy Valentine's Day!

A little Valentine's love for you...all lovingly hand-stamped. This Valentine's set is a retired Stampin' Up! set, but it's OH SO CUTE, and the girls were delighted to get to share these cute little cards with their friends at school! Enjoy!


Monday, February 7, 2011

Goodbye, Old Friends...

Today as I cleared out our shoe basket by our front door, I knew it was time. Time to let go of my favorite pair of brown loafers. You know these shoes -- you've had a pair yourself. That comfy, go-to pair of shoes that you slip on to take out the trash, check the mail, go to the mall, or the park, or ANYWHERE. Well, this particular pair I've been wearing since college, and they're worn out, falling apart, and they will be sorely missed. Goodbye, Old Friends!